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Cherylann Maria Thomas
Trevor Thomas
May 27 1978 - June 28 2003

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07-04-2008 5:33 AM -- By: renee,  From: nj  

hi cherylann, i have visited with you and your ~beautiful angel, trevor~ twice before... he holds a special place in my heart! i wish you, sweet trevor and the family a very safe and happy july 4th... i get so sad when i look at this beautiful family and the loss you have incurred... it just breaks my heart  i am keeping you in my prayers! trevor did not deserve this, neither did you, his gorgeous children and beautiful wife! i will be by to visit again... sending you lotsa love and hugzzz alwayzzz... x0x0x0x0x0x0x0  ~~mommy 2 skye harrison, daughter of maria romanchick both on vm! 

 


07-03-2008 5:19 PM -- By: Amy,  From: BC,Canada  

My daughter Emma, died on June 22,2006. She was 10 months old and the most brilliant light I have ever known. I see that light in your son as well. My thoughts are with you.


07-01-2008 6:57 AM -- By: Lisa,  From: Philadelphia  

Cherylann,

      I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved son. He is very hansome. May you and your family find comfort in your memories of Trevor. You and your son will be in my thoughts and prayers.

 Lisa xOxO


07-01-2008 4:33 AM -- By: Cindi,  From: Kelowna  

Cherlyann,

I visited Trevor's website, this was the first opportunity I have had to do so and I want to tell you how beautiful the arrangement is.  From the first to the last pictures of him, and the stories that go with him. He was such a cute little boy and grew to such a handsome young man.

I have 4 children of my own. 3 and 1 step-son.  My first was my daughter, March 1978, I was 18 and an unwed mom as well. I almost lost my daughter 3 yrs ago when she had a tubal pregnancy.  She was 28 at the time, and I have never been so scared in my life.  Except when she was 16, and was in a serious accident and had spinal injury.  I don't know which was worse.  But nothing can be worse than losing a child in death.  Nothing.  I have had at least one nightmare for each of my children (dying), waking up and so very upset and hard to calm down and tell myself it was jusst a bad dream.  Thank God.  If only for those nightmares that I can relate, that's all I have.  Again, thank God.  Those were bad enough.  I honestly don't know how I could handle a loss such as you have.  Thank you for sharing your feelings on dealing with a loss of a child.  No matter the age, it doesn't follow the 'natural' course of life events.  The age is irrelevant.  If we live to 85 and they're 65, they're still our 'babies'.

I was recently employed to work at the City Cemetery and talk to grieving people, though not as yet, many parents.  I have worked with ill and even dying people in other types of work, but death is so final. The one thing I can say though, is that I have found a type of peace at the Cemetery.  Strange.  I know.  I find it peaceful and restful. Your website will help me even more in how to talk to grieving parents, and I do thank you for that.

My dad died when I was 3, and I am grateful for 2 memories I have of him, Also, all 4 of my grandparents, 3 close friends, 4 cousins and 2 Uncles.  That's 14.  That's enough.  I know I couldn't handle my children going.  Honestly, I'd rather go first, than have to go through that pain.  Maybe selfish, but that's how I feel.

I think it's human nature to shy away from speaking about the ones we have loved who have died.  I believe you have opened up some eyes to what is needed and wanted and hoped for as a grieving mom.  To just be able to talk about Trevor without people looking at you like you lost it or need therapy.  Not knocking therapy, I would no doubt need it for the loss of a child myself,  (it's been hard enough with all my other losses), but maybe the best 'therapy' is being able to talk about the everyday things, like what Trevor did, or the decisions he made, or thought about making,  And why not talk about those things?  Like you said, you can't wipe out 25 yrs of  life because he died. Yes, he died, but his thoughts and feelings still matter.  To you.  And to those close to you.  That's part of the problem too, heartbreaking as it is, you do find out how close you are to family or friends (or not)  when you do go through something as horrific as the death of a child.  That's when close ones should be there, but again, sadly,  human nature is there, and so many run from something so frightening.  So, Cherylann, though you may not get comfort from those you would expect or hope from, accept it from those who have a heart to share your loss with you. I can't relate as I haven't lost a chlld, except as a parent's worst nightmare (my nightmares were only a tip of the iceberg), but for what it's worth, I do feel for you.

You had a wonderful son, you had good times and bad times, even the ugly crap, as all parents. But know always, there was a deep love between you.  That will always remain the same. Forever. And the orbs say everything, don't they? 

Thanks again for allowing me to be able to express my feelings on your Guest Book.  You can always talk to me about Trevor, and never worry, I won't think you're strange or should 'get over it'.  Get over what?  The deepest love a person can have in their life? A Mother's love?  Anytime. Just call me.  Your friend, Cindi

 


06-30-2008 8:34 PM -- By: sharon,  From: Atlanta GA  

Trevor sounds so deeply loved and missed.  My heart goes out to you and your family.  What an horrific accident .. it is tragic.  His children are precious and it sounds like his presence is all around.  Virtual hugs flying your way...

 


06-30-2008 8:26 PM -- By: LORI,  From:  

YOUR SON IS AN ANGEL.. LOVE YOUR MEMORIAL. TREVOR WOULD BE SO PROUD OF YOU.LOVE YOUR IS THERE LIFE AFTER DEATH. ALWAYS WONDERED.I HOPE JEANINE FINDS YOUR SON SO SHE CAN HAVE AN ANGEL BUDDY. PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. LOVE LORI


06-30-2008 2:45 PM -- By: Steffi Aaron's Mom forever,  From: Calgary, AB Canada  

This is a beautiful place to visit your beloved Trevor. Thank you for sharing it with me.

I was glad to read about your experiences with the other side and read about the orbs... unfortunately it is a subject many do not want to hear about or talk about...

I too have seen Aaron's face in orbs and have serveral orbs and have several photos with orbs around me and my granddaughter... I have also had experiences as you have had and many visitations from my son.

Thinking of you and your Trevor

Much love, prayers and hugs to you

Steffi

w w w. aaronshoulders .ca


06-29-2008 11:27 PM -- By: Arlene,  From: NJ  

Lighting a candle this Sunday in memory of Trevor's 5 year memorial date (the 28th).

Thinking of you Cherylann and of your precious Trevor.  May  your heart be full of warm memories that bring smiles to your face......even through the tears. 

Peace & Blessings always,          &nb sp;           & nbsp;            ;           &nb sp;      Arlene (Danny's forever Mom)


06-29-2008 3:34 PM -- By: HollyMarie,  From: Surrey, BC  

When I was reading the paper I came across the "remembering section" in the classifides.. I immediately came to the website to read more about the terrible accident. I lost my best friend from a car accident in 2005, my heart is still empty from it. I hope life gets easier for you and always remember that your son is the angel you cannot see, when you feel a breeze in the air that's him letting you know he's there. I am so very sorry that you had to experience such a horrible thing.


06-29-2008 9:50 AM -- By: Rita and Josh,  From: indiana  

Cherylann,

I meant to sign this yesterday but of course my brain doesn't always click or work like it should. I am remembering your sweet Trevor with you. But I know you always know that. I think of you both often not just on Trevor's special days. ((((HUGS)))

 


06-29-2008 4:36 AM -- By: Mom,  From:  

I REMEMBER YOU...AND ALWAYS WILL...YOUR SPIRIT IS SO STRONG I FEEL YOUR LOVE WASH OVER ME AS I SUFFER YOUR EMPTY PLACE AT THE DINNER TABLE.  THERE IS NO DINNER WITHOUT YOU, TREVOR.

LET'S SAY A PRAYER FOR OUR FRIENS AND FAMILY WHO IGNORE YOUR ESSENCE AND LOVE.  WHO CANNOT BRING THEMSELVES TO SAY WHAT THEY FEEL OR TALK OUT LOUD ABOUT MEMORIES.  FEAR, IS WHAT KEEPS US ALL APART WHILE WE ARE HERE ON EARTH...FEAR AND ANGER STIFFLES ALL OF US FROM SAYING WHAT WE WANT TO SAY...BUT WE KNOW, TREOVR...WE KNOW THAT THE SOULS UNDERNEATH THE SILENCE REALLY DO MEAN WELL. 

Bottom line?  I remeber you today - and always.

 


06-27-2008 2:54 PM -- By: Tammie Cope(Yahoo gp),  From: Anchorage, AK  

Remembering you on your a-date. So sorry for it. Hoping you come through to your mom in some special way. She would really like that I am sure. She can use the love from above....

Cherylann,I hope the day passes with fond memories and warm thoughts of your wonderful son. Bless you on this day. I know it will be hard. I have not had one yet but mine is coming up on July 20th . Take care.


06-27-2008 2:40 PM -- By: Terrie Whiteman,  From: Pa.  

Hi Sweet Trevor,

I will be holding your hand tomorrow on your angelversary.I know you are having a wonderful time with all of the angels in heaven. Hope you met Joey by now, I'm sure you've got a lot in common. Send lots of love and kisses to your Mom, she misses you sooooo much.

Love, Terrie (Joey's Mom)

 


06-25-2008 8:55 PM -- By: shannon,  From:  

Cherylann,

If you ever want to talk to someone about your memories of your son, i would love to listen. No one should feel alone after the death of thier child, please feel free to email me.

God Bless you


06-25-2008 6:23 PM -- By: Linda Alva,  From: California  

I'm part of GP. And could'nt resist, had to see your handsome son for myself.

Linda Mina's Mom


06-25-2008 4:48 PM -- By: shannon,  From:  

Cherylann,

I am so sorry for the loss of your son.  Reading your page How to support a grieving parent is so exact on, for reasons i do not understand others seem to think or feel it is so easy to "move on", "get on with life" after someone has llost a loved one. being only 3 years you have been without your son im sure the pain is still very strong.  the loss of a child no matter what thier age IS the worst experience i have had to go through,  you just always expect to go before them. My prayers & thoughts are with you.

God Bless you


06-25-2008 1:28 PM -- By: Dede Moffitt (GP),  From: Wyoming  

What a handsome young man. I see that Trevor had a very beautiful life. A beautiful wife, 2 beautiful children and a mother that loves him more than the world. I am very sorry for your loss and that you must travel this journey of grief with some of the rest of us. Our love will never die for our children. Love and peace to you and your family.


06-24-2008 3:19 AM -- By: renee,  From: nj  

i just left you a message and had to stop by again... after reading about trevor, looking at ALL the pictures and seeing what a beautiful family he has, just brought tears to my eyes!  this is just so sad... my heart is breaking  for you and his family... i just want to send you a hug x0x0, how tragic and devastating! i am assuming that the girl in the hospital bed is trevor's wife? i hope she is doing okay... i pray for the children, may they never forget their special daddy! i am so sorry that you all had to endure such pain from this terrible accident... what a shame! blessings to you all always and i will keep you in my heart and prayers... x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0  many hugz to heaven... ~mommy 2 skye harrison, daughter of maria romanchick both on vm~ please stop by to visit anytime... my mom and baby are with trevor on the clouds... i am sure they are all great friends, he looks like such a nice and respectable guy!


06-24-2008 3:01 AM -- By: renee,  From: nj  

i am so very sorry for your loss... what a beautiful angel trevor is! this is so sad and tragic... i will keep you all in my  and prayers! blessings always and thank you for sharing your sweet angel trevor with us! what a handsome man he is... i enjoyed looking at your pages, you have done a beautiful job!  i know trevor is so proud... also, happy upcoming angel day to you! x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0  many hugz to heaven, ~~mommy 2 skye harrison, daughter of maria romanchick both on vm~~    in your loving memory today and always... hi cherylann...


06-19-2008 7:47 PM -- By: Lou Ann,  From: KANSAS - USA  

This is one of the most touching and inspirational sites I have ever read.  Thank you so much for sharing. 


06-19-2008 5:49 PM -- By: Dianna Jacobs,  From: Flora, Illinois  

As I viewed your precious son's life, the feelings of

pain is overwhelming as I so very well know the loss of

a child.  This is a wonderful tribute to your son, Trevor

Dianna Jacobs

Kanda's Mom4ever and Kanda4ever30


06-19-2008 2:13 PM -- By: Michelle--Corrina's mom,  From: TX  

Beautiful website, and such wonderful photo's.  Love to you Cherylann, and to Trevor.


06-19-2008 12:38 PM -- By: tammie sgaggero,Brandon's Mom,  From: Maryland  

Trevor, you are a handsome boy!  Your mother has so many wonderful memories of you-her heart misses you so. Show her peaceful, joyful signs that you are with her-shower her visions of that beautiful smile!


06-18-2008 10:09 PM -- By: Colleen Hosler,  From: Maryland  

Cherylann,

Trevor is such a handsome young man with a beuatiful smile.  Your grandchildren are soo sweet.  I especially loved the section on how to support a grieving parent

Peace


06-18-2008 8:45 PM -- By: Shelley, Amy's Mom,  From: CT, NJ, RI, FL  

Cherylann, This is a beautiful tribute to Trevor!  I can feel your love through the words and pictures - your love for Trevor and those 2 beautiful grandchildren!!


06-18-2008 5:51 PM -- By: Norma Foote,  From: TX  

I love it!! Beautifully done and hopefully the messages will be heard.


06-18-2008 5:41 PM -- By: Glenda,  From: missouri  

I hurt so bad for you! Love you lots.

Hugsssssss

Glenda Joseph A. G. Trottier's MoM


06-18-2008 5:01 PM -- By: Mary Harris,  From: Illinois  

What a beautiful tribute to your son.

 


06-18-2008 4:59 PM -- By: Danielle ,  From: NY  

Cheryl - a beautiful tribute to Trevor! His children are gorgeous. . . thank you for sharing him w/ us.

Much Love

Dani mom to ^Pauli^ (GP)


06-18-2008 2:43 PM -- By: Susan,  From: Florida  

Cherylann, what a wonderful tribute to your handsome son!  You really have done a great job!

Love, Susan ~ Clint's Mom


 

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